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Single Bells: Holiday Gifts for the Newly Divorced

Top 24 of 2024

Got a friend or loved one who’s recently untangled themselves from holy (or not-so-holy) matrimony? Why not help them sleigh this holiday season with gifts that scream, “New chapter, who dis?”

From hysterical wine glasses to self-care goodies like luxurious bath bombs for soaking away all the drama, this guide is packed with ideas to help them embrace their fabulous newly-found freedom. Remember, it’s not about looking back at the ghost of relationships past—it’s about celebrating the fresh start ahead. So wrap it up, slap a bow on it, and help them ring in the holidays in style!*

For the Home

A fluffy, pastel pink faux fur throw blanket draped over the arm and cushions of a cream-colored sofa.

  • Help them spice up their solo dining game with a Cooking for One cookbook this holiday season. It’s the perfect gift to turn “table for one” into a celebration, with recipes that say, _“Who needs a plus one when dinner is this good?”_

An image of the book cover for "Cooking for One" by America's Test Kitchen, featuring a plated meal with a seared salmon filet, a black-eyed pea and spinach salad, and a glass of red wine.

  • One of our favorite divorce phrases is commemorated on this fun Christmas ornament.

A flat-lay view of two circular white ceramic Christmas ornaments with gold hanging strings on a gray wood-textured surface.

  • The pure joy that is felt when someone finally walks away from their narcissistic partner is simply empowering. Check out this snarky candle that may be the perfect fit for the recent divorcee in your life.

A candle in a clear glass jar with a white label that reads "SMELLS LIKE LIFE WITHOUT A NARCISSIST" in bold black text.

  • Help your newly divorced friend cleanse their space and their energy with a bundle of Clear Him Out White Smudging Sage. It’s the perfect holiday gift to say, _“Out with the old, in with the you!”_ Pair it with a lighter and let the good vibes roll—because nothing says fresh start like saging away the ex!

A white sage smudge stick bundled with white string, displayed next to its original white packaging box featuring a floral design of light roses and the bold text "clear him the f*ck out"

  • Give the gift of independence this holiday season with a beginner’s tool kit_._ It’s perfect for tackling those “I don’t need to call anyone” projects, empowering them to fix, build, and thrive on their own—because who needs a spouse to complete that “honey, do” list when you’ve got a power drill?

A 132-piece household tool kit with an 8V red cordless power drill in an open black storage case.

Personal Items

  • Many subscription services deliver carefully curated baskets that are perfect when someone goes through a divorce or break-up, especially around the holidays. Check out the “Better Days Ahead” basket from Marigold & Grey to spark some joy with your gift-giving.

An elegant gift box ensemble featuring a white mug, a framed sign, a packaged loofah or soap sponge, a round wooden coaster, dried bunny tail grass accents, a satin ribbon draping down the side, and a personalized gift card.

  • Does your friend want to spread the word of her new-found singlehood? You can’t send a clearer message than this Divorced AF t-shirt_!_

"A woman wearing a charcoal grey acid-wash graphic t-shirt that reads 'Divorced AF' in white serif font across the chest."

  • If your loved one smiles every time she thinks of her recent divorce, maybe this adorable In My Divorce Era mug will brighten up her morning cup o’ Joe.

An image of a white ceramic mug being held by two hands. The mug features retro, wavy pink text that reads "IN MY DIVORCED ERA" surrounded by small pink sparkles and stars.

  • Bring the laughs this holiday season with these wine bottle labels! Stick them on your friend’s favorite bottles and let them toast to milestones like, “Finally deleting his number” or “Reclaiming the remote.” It’s a festive way to keep the spirits (and the _spirits_!) high.

A group of four wine bottles standing side-by-side, each featuring a humorous and comforting custom label designed for someone going through a relationship break-up.

  • Celebrate a fresh start with a beautiful New Beginnings lotus necklace this holiday season. Symbolizing growth and resilience, it’s a meaningful way to remind them they’re blossoming into their best self—because every ending is just the start of something amazing.

A gold delicate chain necklace featuring a lotus flower pendant, displayed on a square white card featuring the text "new beginnings" at the top and the brand name "DOGEARED" at the bottom.

  • Give your friend the ultimate cozy reminder of her fabulous fresh new chapter with an “And she lived happily ever after” sweatshirt. Perfect for lounging, sipping cocoa, or plotting her next adventure, it’s a holiday gift that says, “You’ve got this—and you look amazing doing it!”

A woman smiling and flashing peace signs with both hands, wearing a light beige knit beanie and a matching sand-colored oversized sweatshirt that reads 'and she lived happily ever after divorced'. She is sitting indoors in front of a decorated Christmas tree.

Self-Care

  • Everyone can use a luxurious bath bomb to wash away the drama of a bad relationship. Check out these geode-themed bath bombs to leave that newly-single skin soft and glowing!

An image of a round, pink geode bath bomb with a textured top filled with light pink crystals, resembling a natural mineral crust, and bordered by a shimmering gold metallic rim.

  • Give a good friend the gift of laughter and stress relief with a divorce-themed coloring book this holiday season! It’s the perfect mix of humor and self-care, letting them color their way through the ups and downs of their new lifestyle. Bonus points if you include crayons labeled “Freedom Red” and “Alimony Gold.”

A cover of a divorce-themed coloring book featuring illustrations and the title prominently displayed.

  • If your friend or loved one is looking for a true reset, and they’re local to Connecticut, consider a spa gift certificate to Nolla Wellness_._ A relaxing massage in the salt cave is the perfect way to renew their mind, body, and soul.

A cozy room featuring several chairs arranged around a warm fireplace.

  • Self-care is where it’s at this holiday season, so if you want to give the gift of beautification in Connecticut, check out gift cards to Aesthetics by Alexandria. Such a great way for your favorite person to pamper herself before a big date! Facials, spray tans, and waxing, oh my!

A woman in an orange outfit sits in front of a microwave, looking thoughtfully at the appliance.

  • Give your friend the perfect stress-busting holiday gift with a Dammit Doll! Whether they’re venting about their ex or just need to release some tension, this hilarious little doll is ready to take the hits. A great way to say, “We’ve all been there—now let’s laugh about it!”

A diagram illustrating the anatomy of a Damnit Doll, highlighting its features and construction details for educational purposes.

  • Everyone needs a little something to unwind at the end of the day. These hysterical wine glasses get the point across in the best way possible.

Two wine glasses with the text, "I don't have any problems but I'm not an one," displayed prominently between them.

Experiences

  • What better way to celebrate a recent divorce than with an amazing trip? Whether it’s time to build up courage for a solo trip, or do a fun-filled getaway with besties, travel experiences will create unforgettable memories. A travel gift certificate from Adventures by Jaime will propel your loved one on their adventure.

A woman in a white dress and hat strolls along the sandy beach, with waves gently lapping at her feet.

  • Divorce parties are arguably the best way to celebrate the big event. Help your friend plan a divorce party, and treat them to a delicious cake to really show them how sweet new beginnings can be! Cakes by Christina always does a fabulous job!

A cake decorated with the word "divorced" written in icing, symbolizing a celebration of newfound freedom.

  • Does your friend need an outlet to release that frustration built up during the divorce process? How about a gift card to Smash Avenue, where they can have a session in a Rage Room and walk out feeling like a new person?

A woman wearing a hard hat holds a hammer, ready to work on a construction project.

  • A fun exercise class is a great post-divorce gift. It’s a chance to sweat out stress, boost confidence, and maybe even make some new friends. Regardless of the type of exercise, it’s all about moving forward—literally and figuratively—while having a blast along the way.

A group of women practicing yoga poses in a well-lit gym, focusing on balance and flexibility.

  • New beginnings mean new hobbies. Look for in-person or online classes that your friend would enjoy. You can find everything from mixology to knitting, and it could be a fun event to do together! Check out local events, or a site like Uncommon Goods for some unique listings.

A woman holds a glass of liquid in one hand and a spoon in the other, smiling at the camera.

  • If none of these gift suggestions seem to fit-opt for the best gift of all, time. Your recently-divorced friend or family member is probably still reeling, even if they appear to be calm, cool, and collected. Spend some time with them and enjoy the moment. It’s a great way to spread some holiday cheer!

At Wolf & Shore Law Group, we understand that divorce marks the end of one chapter and the start of another. If you or someone you love needs support navigating this transition, we’re here to help. Contact us_today to learn more about our family law services and how we can assist you._

Cheers to a happy and healthy holiday season!

*This article links to featured products and local businesses. This article is not an endorsement, nor is Wolf & Shore Law Group paid for any products/sales derived from these links. Wolf & Shore Law Group is not affiliated with any company or vendor mentioned in this article.

Attorney Wolf and Attorney Shore laughing on a beach while spraying champagne from a bottle into champagne flutes.