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Back-to-School After Divorce: A Fresh Start for Co-Parents

As the summer winds down, families everywhere are preparing for...

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New Year, New You: Finding the Right Fit for Your Divorce Attorney

A new year often brings reflection, resolutions, and the desire...

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Subpoenaing AI History and Searches During Divorce: What You Need to Know

As technology continues to evolve, so do the ways in...

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Sun, Sand & Schedules: Making Summer Co-Parenting Work

Summer should be about sunshine and smiles—but if you’re co-parenting,...

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National Splurge Day: Is It Time to “Treat Yourself” to the Divorce You’ve Been Considering?

June 18th is National Splurge Day, and while many people...

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Artificial Intelligence Can be Helpful in a Divorce—But It’s Not a Replacement for Legal Advice

Divorce can be overwhelming—emotionally, logistically, and psychologically. At Wolf &...

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Applying the “Let Them Theory” to Divorce

If you haven’t heard of the “Let Them Theory,” you...

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College Planning for Divorced or Separated Parents

As the new year begins, many families are focused on...

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New Year, New You: Resolutions for Recently Divorced Parents

Ah, January. The month where gym memberships skyrocket, planners sell...

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Deciding Between Divorce or a Legal Separation

If you have made the decision that you no longer...

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Interrogatories v. Depositions

Understanding the Differences Between Interrogatories and Depositions in the Divorce...

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Divorce Gift Registries: Helping Friends Move Forward

Just like wedding registries, divorce gift registries are gaining traction....

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I Just Filed for Divorce, But I Want to Stay on My Spouse’s Insurance, Is That Possible?

Dear Attorneys, I own my own business, so I am...

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Finding Independence After Divorce

Finding Independence After Divorce As the fireworks light up the...

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My Husband’s Attorney Filed a Motion for Counsel Fees and I Don’t Understand Why?

Dear Attorneys, My husband’s attorney filed a motion for counsel...

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Unmasking Gaslighting

When a narcissist gaslights a partner, the gaslighting is like...

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Navigating College Expenses in Connecticut: The Divorced Parents Edition

Navigating College Expenses in Connecticut: The Divorced Parents Edition Divorce...

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All My Post-Judgement Motions were Denied, and Now I Need to File a Request with the Court. Is this Normal?

Dear Attorneys, I got divorced a few years ago. We...

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April is Financial Literacy Month!

The Role of Financial Literacy in Financially Empowering Yourself in...

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My Attorney Keeps Telling Me to “Act in Good Faith.” I Feel like I Have Been, But My Soon-to-be-Ex has not. What Should I do?

Dear Attorneys, My attorney keeps telling me to “act in...

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Spring Break Logistics for Your Child

Spring Break Logistics for Your Child: Co-Parenting Tips for Divorced...

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Fault v. No-Fault Divorce

Navigating Divorce in Connecticut: Understanding Fault-Based vs. No-Fault Divorce Divorce...

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Divorce And Valentine’s Day: What To Remember Going Into This Week!

Divorce And Valentine’s Day: What To Remember Going Into This...

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How do I Handle a Protective Order, a Restraining Order, and DCF involvement in Our Marriage when She Says She’s Supporting me, but it doesn’t feel like it?

Dear Attorneys, I am currently married and do not plan...

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Is There a Way I Can Resolve My Divorce Without Having the Judge Make the Final Call?

Dear Attorneys, I am going through a divorce, and I...

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My Spouse’s Financial Affidavit Doesn’t Seem Accurate. What Can I Do?

Dear Attorneys, I’m in the middle of a divorce and...

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Can My Ex Travel Outside of the USA with Our Kid?

Can My Ex Travel Outside of the USA with Our...

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Lightbulb Moment

Lightbulb moments are moments when you have a sudden realization...

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My Child Doesn’t Want to See Their Other Parent Because of Drinking Problems and I Don’t Feel Safe Sending Them, What Do I Do?

Dear Attorneys, My child is supposed to go visit with...

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I Currently Have A Shared Parenting Plan, But No Longer Feel it is Safe for My Children, What Can I Do?

Dear Attorneys, I just got divorced earlier this year. When...

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It’s My First Christmas Divorced, My Ex Won’t Let Me See the Kids Longer, What Do I Do?

Dear Attorneys, This is my first Christmas being divorced and...

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If I Have My Kids Half of the Time, Do I Need to Pay Child Support?

Dear Attorneys, My husband and I are close to reaching...

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I Do. I Did. I’m Done.

I do. I did. I’m done. At Wolf & Shore...

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Can I Have My Therapist Relay Information to My Attorney?

Dear Attorneys, I have been struggling with my mental health...

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Do I Have Entitlement to My Spouse’s Company When We are Getting Divorced?

Dear Attorneys, My wife owns her own business and keeps...

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How to Help Family Members Who Complain About Their Marriage

How to Help Family Members who Complain About Their Marriage...

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What Happens to Military Benefits in a Divorce?

What Happens to Military Benefits in a Divorce? Military benefits...

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Top 5 Tips for Blended Families to Make it Through Holiday Dinners

Top 5 Tips for Blended Families to Make it Through...

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What To Do If You Forgot To Make A Holiday Schedule

Dear Attorneys, When I got divorced, my ex-wife and I...

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What is Mortgage Assumption? Is it a Viable Option in my Divorce?

What is Mortgage Assumption? Is it a Viable Option in...

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How To Handle A Notice for Deposition Late in a Divorce

Dear Attorneys, I just received a notice for deposition. My...

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How Can I Stay in My Current Home After a Divorce?

Dear Attorneys, I’m going through a divorce and want to...

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What Happens With The Lease For My Apartment After A Divorce?

Dear Attorneys, What happens with the lease for my apartment...

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I do. I did. I’m done.

I do. I did. I’m done. At Wolf & Shore...

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Seeking Support With Shared Parenting Plans

Dear Attorneys, I’m in the middle of a divorce and...

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Can I Change My Custody Agreement?

Dear Attorneys, I entered into a Custody Agreement with my...

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Can I Use an Attorney as a Mediator?

Dear Attorneys, When I was divorced, our Divorce Agreement indicated...

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Can I Get a Copy of My Divorce Decree from My Attorney?

Dear Attorneys, My divorce is finalized and I am switching...

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Will My Divorce be on Public Record?

Dear Attorneys, I’m in the middle of my divorce, but...

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I Want to File for Divorce, Which Divorce Papers Do I File?

Dear Attorneys, I want to file for divorce, but I...

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How Do I Speed Up My Divorce?

Dear Attorneys, I hired my divorce attorney a couple of...

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Do I Have to Follow My Court Order if I Think My Children are Unsafe?

Dear Attorneys, I have a divorce pending and we have...

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Mediation is Not Working for Me, Can I Get Someone to Advocate for Me?

Dear Attorneys, I’m currently going through mediation with my spouse,...

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Can I Protect My Inheritance if My Divorce is Rocky?

Dear Attorneys, My older sister is very ill, and I...

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If I Move Out of My House, Will I Forfeit My Share of Equity?

Dear Attorneys, I recently filed for divorce, and I want...

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Reducing Stress in your Visitation Schedule 6.26.23

How do you Reduce Stress in your Visitation Schedule? If...

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Can My Spouse List Our House as an AirBnB Without My Permission?

Dear Attorneys, My divorce has been pending for a couple...

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Summer Scheduling Blues 6.7.23

Anyone who has kids knows that summertime can be a...

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Are You Struggling to Get Your Co-parent’s Consent for International Travel?

Are You Struggling to Get Your Co-parent’s Consent for International...

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I’m Tired of Sending Documents, I Just Want My Divorce to Be Over, What Do I Do?

Dear Attorneys, I just want my divorce to be over....

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Why isn’t Alimony Guaranteed?

Why isn’t Alimony Guaranteed? Alimony, spousal support, spousal maintenance, it’s...

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How Can I Modify Child Support or Alimony?

If you want to modify any terms of your underlying...

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How Can I Keep My Child in the Same School System if My Child’s Parent is Moving and I Live in a Different Town?

Dear Attorneys, My child’s father is moving to a new...

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What Can I Expect in the First Few Weeks of My Divorce?

Dear Attorneys, I’m going through a divorce, and I just...

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Would I Be Violating My Court Order if I Move to Another State With My Child?

Dear Attorneys, I have sole legal and physical custody of...

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Can I Have My New Spouse Handle My Child Support With the Law Firm and My Ex-Spouse?

Dear Attorneys, I am remarried and need to go to...

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What is Collaborative Divorce?

What is Collaborative Divorce? Collaborative divorce is a legal divorce...

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What Does My Divorce Coach Mean by Working ‘in tandem’ with My Attorney?

Dear Attorneys, I’m going through a very emotional divorce and...

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Timeshare Division in a Divorce

Timeshare Division in a Divorce A timeshare is an asset...

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What Does My Attorney Mean by ‘marital assets’, When We Have Kept Everything Separate?

Dear Attorneys, I don’t understand why my attorney keeps telling...

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How to Plan for Educational Financing During a Divorce

How to Plan for Educational Financing During a Divorce If...

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What Do I Do if I Feel like My Soon-to-be-Ex Spouse is Not Taking Care of Our Child During Their Parenting Time?

Dear Attorneys, I don’t think that my soon-to-be-ex wife is...

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Can I File My Taxes Separately From My Soon-to-be Ex-Spouse This Year?

Dear Attorneys, I’m going through a divorce and while we...

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What Do You Do if Your Spouse Has a Substance Abuse Problem?

What Do You Do if Your Spouse Has a Substance...

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What Happens with an Investment Property Divorce?

What Happens with an Investment Property Divorce? Investment properties in...

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How Can I Get Electronic Versions of My Mandatory Production Documents?

Dear Attorneys, I have to compile a lot of documents...

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What is Non-Adversarial Divorce?

What is Non-Adversarial Divorce? Non-adversarial divorce can actually mean two...

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My Spouse is a Gaslighter, What Do I Do?

Dear Attorneys, My wife has been gaslighting me for years....

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I Want to Reach an Agreement With My Spouse Before I File for Divorce, Can I Do That?

Dear Attorneys, I want to try to reach an agreement...

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I Receive Social Security Disability Income (SSDI), How Do I Know How My Benefits Will Change After Divorce?

Dear Attorneys, I currently receive Social Security Disability Income (SSDI),...

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I Can’t Agree with My Ex-Spouse on Anything, How Can I Change My Divorce Agreement to be More Specific?

Dear Attorneys, The holidays were a disaster this year. My...

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I Don’t Like How My Spouse is Treating My Kids When I’m Not Around, I Want to Call DCF, But My Attorney Told Me No, Why?

Dear Attorneys, I don’t like how my soon-to-be-ex-wife is treating...

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I Want To Pay a Lump Sum to My Child’s Parent to “Buy-Out” Child Support, Can I Do That?

Dear Attorneys, I want to pay a lump sum amount...

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I Pay Child Support, There are New Tax Rules for 2023, How Do I Know if I’m Still Paying the Right Amount?

Dear Attorneys, I pay child support to my ex-wife. I...

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I’m Going Through a Divorce and My Husband Wants to Have Depositions!

Dear Attorneys, I’m going through a divorce and my husband...

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My Child is Only Home in the Summer and a Couple Weeks Around Christmas, Can I Stop Making Child Support Payments?

Dear Attorneys, My son lives at prep school now, but...

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I Make More Money Than My Soon-to-be-Ex-Spouse, Can I Still Receive Child Support?

Dear Attorneys, I’m going through a divorce. My husband makes...

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I Want To File For Divorce, I Have an Inheritance From a Family Member, I Don’t Want My Spouse to Have any of it, What Can I Do?

Dear Attorneys, I want to file for divorce, but I...

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I Think My Ex-Spouse is Going to Violate Out Custody Agreement, Can I File a Motion for Contempt Now?

Dear Attorneys, I think my ex-wife is going to violate...

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I Have a Shared Parenting Plan, My Ex-Spouse’s New Partner is Inappropriate Around My Kids, What Can I Do?

Dear Attorneys, I have a shared parenting plan with my...

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My Child is Back in School, What if They Get Sick and I Can’t Get Them and I Don’t Want My Ex-Spouse to?

Dear Attorneys, Now that my child is back in school,...

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Opposing Counsel Wants 10 Years of Bank Statements, But My Attorney Says That Exceeds the Normal Requirement, Should I Comply?

Dear Attorneys, I’m going through a divorce and my spouse’s...

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I Want to File for Divorce, But My Name is Not on the House, I’m Concerned I Won’t be Entitled to Anything, What Do I Do.

Dear Attorneys, I want to file for a divorce, but...

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My Spouse is in the Military and I Want to be Sure that I Get a Portion of Their Pension When We Get Divorced, Can I Do That?

Dear Attorneys, I have been with my spouse for almost...

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My Attorney Recommends a Guardian ad Litem, But I Don’t Want to, Can We Do the Matter Without One?

Dear Attorneys, My attorney recommended that we retain a guardian...

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My Attorney Doesn’t Think We Will Win at Trial and is Discouraging Me to Go, What Do I Do?

Dear Attorneys, My attorney told me that based on the...

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I Just Moved Out of My House, I’m Not in a Stable Living Situation, Can I See My Kids?

Dear Attorneys, I just moved out of my house. My...

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My Spouse and I Want to File for Divorce Together, Can We Do That?

Dear Attorneys, My husband and I want to file for...

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My Ex-Spouse is Incarcerated and Filed a Post-Judgement, I Don’t Have a Lawyer to Help Me, What Do I Do?

Dear Attorneys, My ex-wife is incarcerated and she filed a...

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I am Filing for Divorce and Moving Out, is it True that I Won’t Get Money From the House and Still Be Responsible for the Mortgage?

Dear Attorneys, I am filing for divorce and want to...

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My Ex-Spouse and I Had Domestic Violence Issues in the Past and Have Restraining Orders Now, But We Get Along Better Now for the Kids, Is this a Violation?

Dear Attorneys, My ex-wife and I have previously had some...

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I have a Post-Judgement Matter Pending and a GAL, They Recommended Co-Parenting Counseling, Why are they Recommending this?

Dear Attorneys, I have a post-judgment matter pending and we...

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I’m in the Middle of My Divorce and Asked for Lifetime Alimony, My Attorney says that’s not Common anymore, Is that true?

Dear Attorneys, I’m in the middle of my divorce and...

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I’m in a Collaborative Divorce, But I’m Not Happy, I see no Progress made, Can I Stop the Process?

Dear Attorneys, I started the collaborative process for my pending...

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I’m Young and Haven’t Been Married long, But I Want a Divorce, Is there a “easy way” to Do it Yourself?

Dear Attorneys, I’m pretty young and haven’t been married very...

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My Matter is Not Moving as Quickly as I want, My Soon-to-be-Ex and I Can’t Accomplish Anything, What do I do?

Dear Attorneys, My matter is just not moving as quickly...

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My Soon-to-be-Ex Spouse is Not Following our Court Order, Can I Call the Cops When They Violate the Agreement?

Dear Attorneys, My soon-to-be-ex-husband is not following our current court...

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Why Should You Include Summer Vacation Provisions in a Parenting Plan?

A full and comprehensive parenting plan is helpful not just...

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Traveling With Children According To A Divorce Agreement

Dear Attorneys, My ex-husband took our kids on vacation for...

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Top 5 Things to Do Once You Have Been Served

If you have just been served by a marshal, whether...

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Divorce When You Own a Business Together

Dear Attorneys, My husband and I are getting a divorce,...

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I Pay Child Support to My Ex, They Want to Sign up our Kids for Extracurriculars, Do I need to pay?

Dear Attorneys, I pay child support to my ex-husband. He...

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I have a Pending Divorce, but My Soon-to-be-Ex-Spouse won’t cooperate, what do I do?

Dear Attorneys, I have a divorce pending and my soon-to-be-ex-wife...

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I Was Recently Served with Divorce Papers, But I Don’t See My Case on the Judicial Site, How Do I Find it?

Dear Attorneys, I was recently served with divorce papers, but...

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My Ex Wants to Take our Child to Another State, But I Don’t Agree, What Can I Do?

Dear Attorneys, My ex-husband wants to take our son (10...

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I Want to File for Divorce, But My Spouse is in the Military and We Have Not Been Married 10 Years Yet, Will I still get Benefits?

Dear Attorneys, I want to file for divorce, but my...

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My Spouse and I are getting Divorced Today (Dec. 30th), But We Want to File Taxed Jointly, Can We Do That?

Dear Attorneys, My husband and are getting divorced today (December...

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My Parenting Plan was made a long time ago, I want to take my Child on vacation during February break, Do I need my Ex’s permission?

Dear Attorneys, My child is 16 and our parenting plan...

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I Don’t think my Child’s School has enough COVID-19 Protocols and I want to enroll them in another school, My Ex does not agree. Can I enroll them and tell my Ex later?

Dear Attorneys, I don’t think that my child’s school has...

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I am Ready to Finalize My Divorce. The Judge Said that he will not Finalize the Divorce until after Our Baby is Born. I don’t want to wait any longer, Do I have any options?

Dear Attorneys, My husband and I ready to finalize our...

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I Want to have my 6-year old vaccinated for COVID-19, but my Ex doesn’t agree. Am I Allowed to Schedule their Vaccination?

Dear Attorneys, I want to have my six year old...

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I Gave My Lawyer a List of Personal Property I Want, but my Soon-to-be-Ex doesn’t agree. Now we may have to go to Arbitration. What does that mean?

Dear Attorneys, My lawyer told me that she doesn’t argue...

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My Co-parent and I can’t reach a decision to Vaccinate our 5-year-old for COVID-19, Do I have legal remedies?

Dear Attorneys, My co-parent and I can’t reach a decision...

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My Attorney Says They Don’t Participate in My Group Legal Services Offered at Work, I Want to Switch Attorneys, Can I Do that?

Dear Attorneys, I am reviewing my benefit options at work,...

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My Ex-Spouse and I are Disagreeing About Our Upcoming Holiday Schedule, Do I Have Time to Get into Court before the Holidays?

Dear Attorneys, My ex-husband and I are disagreeing about our...

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I had a Will Drafted when I was Married, Now that I’m Divorced, I Assume My Will is Invalid, Am I Correct?

Dear Attorneys, I had a Will drafted when I was...

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Can I Enter into a Collaborative Divorce and if it Doesn’t Work Out, then Hire My Attorney to Represent Me?

Dear Attorneys, I wanted to try collaborative divorce, but I...

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My Attorney told me that I should have a GAL appointed. What is a GAL? How would one help my case?

Dear Attorneys, My attorney told me that I should have...

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Can VA Disability payments be divided in a Divorce? Shouldn’t I be able to keep that?

Dear Attorneys, Can VA Disability payments be divided in a...

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My Divorce Trial is coming up, My Attorney says that we won’t have time to introduce all the evidence, What do I do?

Dear Attorneys, I have a divorce trial coming up in...

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I have sole legal custody of my child. I want to relocate to another state for work. Can I do that? Do I have to tell my Ex?

Dear Attorneys, I have sole legal custody of my child....

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My Attorney says I have to pay a $20,000 trial retainer if I can’t find an agreement in my divorce! How is that fair? What can I do?

Dear Attorneys, I haven’t been able to reach an agreement...

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I have a Large Personal Injury Settlement, I Want to File for Divorce, but I Don’t Want my soon-to-be-Ex to get half. Will they?

Dear Attorneys, I received a large personal injury settlement last...

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Can I Bring My Ex back to Court to Modify our Agreement?

Dear Attorneys, I know that the State is “opening back...

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I am Divorced and Paying Alimony, My Ex has a New Partner Living with them now. Is this Cohabitation? Can I stop Paying Alimony?

Dear Attorneys, I got divorced and I’m paying alimony. However,...

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I’m Married, but Considering Divorce, I Want to Buy a Plot of Land without My Spouse on the deed. Do I Have to Purchase it Jointly or can I do this on my own?

Dear Attorneys, I’m married, but considering a divorce. I have...

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If I Claim Head of Household on my Taxes, what effect would this have on My Divorce?

Dear Attorneys, My attorney asked me if I will be...

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My Soon-to-be-Ex and I can’t agree on how to divide our personal property. My Attorney said that we may go through arbitration. What does that mean?

Dear Attorneys, I’m going through a divorce, but soon-to-be-ex and...

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I hear about this “American Rescue Plan” and it may affect child support payments. Is this something I should be concerned about?

Dear Attorneys, I keep hearing about this “American Rescue Plan,”...

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I am in the Military seeking Divorce, does my Soon-to-be-Ex automatically get half of my Military Pension?

Dear Attorneys, I’m in the military and going through a...

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